— Intimacy Primacy —

 Primacy is the objective goal, and intimacy is that goal. I tried to be romantic about the title, it sounds like I’m being flippant about it, but I assure you I’m not.

We all seek someone that can relate to our feelings, that is intimacy to me, they don’t have to agree with me, but they should hear me. I’m crossing into the egotistical field, and I don’t want to go there.

This guy pours his heart into these videos, and I wouldn’t do him justice by bad mouthing him, he has different views, but we are looking at the same thing, just from different sides.

I understand the inter-subjectivity theory, it’s common sense or an agreement of terms, a common thought. I’m reacquainting with the terms subjective and objective, and sharing your ideas with someone is intersubjective, where you share your thoughts that may be bias, or not be bias, and the other person would share their ideas which might be bias or not be bias. That is intersubjectivity to me.

My commenting on his videos, is a sense of intersubjectivity too. It’s a new word for me, I had to look up the word it wasn’t in my spell check dictionary. Now, it is.

It’s basically structured conversations to bring new understanding to light, not necessarily arguments, but rational reasoning. I like those conversations, where bias is the horse you ride, and you are in control of the horse, you might not be in control of the horses grunts and nays, but you are in control of the reins.

Sorry horse lovers, I really don’t see horses as biases, but it popped into my mind, so I went with it.

I follow the spirit of truth no matter where it leads, it brought me to this strange place. Tomidjah’s corner on the web, where I could be intersubjective with the world, no matter what you think of me, I’m finding out what you are made of, it makes me happy and sad, like the rest of the world.

This is “our condition” too, I seek intimacy, not sexual intimacy, but the cognitive and emotional intimacy with discussions, that is my ecstasy, my fulfillment.